If you are not of equal social status:
Hypocrite (or self-entitled) isn't the right word here. Take a king for example, he expects you to bow before him, but he won't bow before you.
If you are of equal social status:
The person might still not be a hypocrite. Think of a smoker that tells you not to smoke. It's a good piece of advice, but he isn't following his own directions.
Just because someone doesn't do what he is preaching doesn't make the advice is bad or the person is a hypocrite (or self-entitled).
So to conclude everything, you could say his ratio of giving advice (or having expectations) vs. following own advice (or fulfilling the expectations from another man's perspective) is bad. But there is no word for it that I know of.