A term you might also use to describe your feelings and this situation is awkward:
embarrassing or inconvenient; caused by lack of social grace
in your example:
Oh man, last night I cracked a joke and noone even smiled at it. It was awkward.
The word itself is also something usually said by younger people in response to such events, usually with stress on both syllables with a bit less stress in between and lingering somewhat on the r.