The pronoun has nothing to do with it. Lists do not work that way in the first place. InFirst of all, your first example, you should is incorrect as a list can only have one conjunction.
For exampleTo answer your question, 'or' is the correct conjunction. 'And' is not applicable because this list is about something that does not happen, and 'nor' is only used after 'neither' as in:
Neither John nor Bob wanted to go to the supermarket.
Therefore, your sentence should look like this:
Claims are not liable to insurers, investors, S Corporation, or its owners.