miss [transitive] to notice that somebody/something is not where they/it should be.
e.g. *When did you first miss the necklace?
From https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/english/miss_1?q=miss
This definition along with the sample sentence appears near the bottom, so it must mean it is less frequently used. Is this usage still common in modern English? I would rewrite it as:
When did you first notice the necklace was missing?