I just wonder when I have to use the word 'own'.
The word 'own' seems to be used like 'have'
What do you usually use between the below sentences?
I have my own house.
I own my house.
I have my own house.
Here, own is used as a determiner. You use own like this for emphasis, or to indicate that you also have something. For example:
I used to share a flat with some friends but now I have my own [flat].
I didn't believe it until I saw it with my own eyes.
I own my house.
When it is used as a verb, it indicates possession. By comparison, have an also mean that you have with you, or have in your possession, or have available for your use.
I have a house - it could be rented, and I just live in it
I own a house - it is my property
See the Cambridge Dictionary for more examples.