A : Do you like me?
B : Yes
A : As friends?
B : Yeah. I mean, I don't know. I (haven't / hadn't) really thought about that.
I haven't really thought about that.
I didn't think about that before and I don't know now as well. (chances are I don't like you)
I hadn't really thought about that.
I didn't think about that before, but it's only past that I didn't think. There's a big time difference between past and present by using "hadn't". And, now that I think of it, it could be different from before.(chances are I like you)
Am I right to think this way? I know it's not perfectly right but I just have a feeling like that.
Which one would you say when you like her.