I want to know what the constraints are on using the phrase one of the.
Is it used correctly in this example?
He is one of the soldiers who fight for their country.
The verb fight has to be plural here. The reason is that the relative clause has to refer to soldiers, not one. The fact that their is used should already be considered evidence of this (or it would have been his).
If who fights for their country referred to one of the soldiers, that means the paratactic (= with coordinate clauses) equivalent would be thus:
*He is [ [one of the soldiers] who fights for their country].
*He is one of the soldiers, and he fights for their country.
But what we really mean by that sentence is this:
He is [one of [the soldiers who fight for their country] ].
There are soldiers who fight for their country, and he is one of them.
We don't mean to say he is one of the soldiers: that is not relevant. Which "the" soldiers, anyway? What we want to say is that he is among a certain kind of soldiers, namely those who fight for their country, so we use a defining relative clause to define the kind of soldiers that he belongs to. The kind of soldiers has to be defined first, before we assign him to this group. That means the relative clause refers to the soldiers only; only after that is one of added.
The general rule for usage of the phrase "one of the" is:
One of the + PLURAL NOUN + that/who etc. + SINGULAR/PLURAL VERB
So, the noun following the phrase "one of the" is always a plural noun, whereas use of verbs as singular or plural will entirely depend upon the subject of the statement, i.e. singular verb for singular subject and plural verb for plural subject.
For example:
Pistachio is one of the few flavors that appeal to me.
That acts as the subject for the verb "appeal", and that in this sentence refers to flavors (plural noun) and thus, appeal (plural verb) is used.
The alarm is triggered when one of the criminals tries to escape.
"One criminal" (singular noun) who tries to escape is the subject for the verb "try", and thus try becomes tries (singular verb).
The phrase 'one of the' is used to describe something/someone from the same group.
There are many birds on the tree. One of the birds is red.
This means we are talking about all the birds on the three but then when you want to be specific about the red bird, you use one of the.
He is one of the soldiers who fights for their country - is correct.
We'll use the verb *fights*. The subject of the sentence is he, not soldiers; therefore, the verb should agree with the singular he, not soldiers, which is the object of the preposition (J.R.).
Note: Another common mistake found among non-native speakers while using one of the is that they consider a single item/unit as a group of whatever they are talking about. This is incorrect.
Having this said,
He is one of my friend - incorrect.
He is one of my friends - correct.
The simple logic is this- when 'one of' occurs at the beginning of a sentence it takes a singular verb e.g one of the diseases that kills children is malaria. When it is at the middle it takes a plural verb e.g malaria is one of the diseases that kill children.