I came across a sentence on one of the pages on stackexchange today -

He resents your being more popular than he is

I always thought that while comparing two pronouns they should always be of the same type, like,

She is taller than he (is)


I care for him more than her

I understand that the first sentence that I mentioned is correct but the moment you take out the is in the end, my perception begins to change.

He resents your being more popular than he doesn't sound right to my ears.

Shouldn't this sentence, then, be -

He resents your being more popular than his

Unfortunately, even this sentence sounds horribly wrong to me. Can someone please clarify what rule is being followed here and which is the best way to write this sentence without changing its core structure.

  • For a previous discussion of this point, see: ell.stackexchange.com/questions/61011/… May 24, 2018 at 19:39
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    @RonaldSole it's related, but not quite the same. The the problem is "your", which I think borders on vernacular. I would write this sentence as He resents you being more popular than he/him.
    – Andrew
    May 24, 2018 at 20:58

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(Edit) Being more popular than he is is a gerund phrase. Gerunds are by definition without subject, so there is no comparison, and any of the three options work.

He resents your being more popular than he is / he / him.

  • In my opinion, using the possessive with a gerund is the opposite: very formal to the point of seeming stuffy or curmudgeonly. I pretty much always do it, because I am stuffy and curmudgeonly. "You being" makes it seem like a participle. "Your being" puts it firmly in gerund territory. So it comes down to a question of what he resents. Does he resent "you" (modified by an adjective participle phrase) or does he resent "your being popular." May 24, 2018 at 21:28
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    @joiedevivre Actually that makes sense, and since "your" is outside the gerund phrase there's no comparison at all.
    – Andrew
    May 24, 2018 at 21:59

I'm going to start by apologizing to Andrew. I think I kind of derailed his answer. But I'm going to attempt to explain it. I do hope you read the other article about actual idiomatic speech that Ronald Sole linked, because since your question seems based in very formal prescriptive grammar, I'm going to ignore more idiomatic grammar, and base my answer on purely prescriptive grammar.

So, I believe the short rule here is when an -ing verb is a participle or a gerund, it becomes the new linguistic head of the phrase. That means everything after it has to conform to its grammatical and syntactic rules (and nothing before it really matters). In comparisons, participles and gerunds have this grammatical form:

-ing participle or gerund
+ (more or less)
+ adjective or adverb
+ "than"
+ nominative
+ auxiliary verb


playing games more than I do
talking less than he does

I think it's also possibly important to discuss the difference between the following:

I like going to the store more than he does.
I like my going to the store more than his going to the store.

The first one is the simple rule I told you about how comparison usually works after -ing participles or gerunds. The second example has two parallel gerund clauses, but the meaning is very different. The two different meanings, respectively, are these:

I like to go to the store more than he likes to go to the store.
I like it when I go to the store more than I like it when he goes to the store.

I don't know if that previous example helps at all, but I think these different meanings might help explain why comparisons work a bit differently when an -ing participle or gerund is the head of the phrase.

Note that infinitives also use this structure: I would like him to read more than she does. Idiomatically, many speakers might say I would like him to read more than her. However, formally speaking, the infinitive is the new head of the phrase and should take the nominative. There's also a risk of ambiguity. You can't tell for sure which of the following things "I would like him to read more than her" means (formally speaking, it means the second one, but most speakers would mean the first one):

I would like him to read more than she reads.
I would like him to read more than I would like her to read.

On a final note, you said the following didn't sound right to you:

He resents your being more popular than he.

It sounds pretty weird to most native English speakers, as well, because nobody says it, anymore, but formally, it is completely proper. We are at kind of a weird place in English. There are still some people who are uncomfortable with saying something like this (and at least as many more who have no problem with it):

She is taller than him.

However, the people who are uncomfortable with that, generally speaking, no longer ellide the word "is" and would say:

She is taller than he is.

Finally, while saying the following is formally correct, it is very rare:

She is taller than he.

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