I am looking for an idiom or expression to describe a spiteful and vindictive person; a type of person who tends to hold a grudge against their offenders for a long time, being unable to forget past offenses.

  • Can you be more specific? Are you deliberately looking for an idiom and not a single word? How would it be used? Commented Jul 8, 2018 at 13:53
  • Yes, I am looking for an idiom or expression, describing such a person. I am not looking for a single word. There are a lot of words with synonymous meaning.
    – Beqa
    Commented Jul 8, 2018 at 13:58
  • How about, 'She was like a dog with a bone, once she got her teeth into someone she would not let go.'
    – James
    Commented Jul 8, 2018 at 14:16
  • You use the most common idiom in your question, namely "hold a grudge." Commented Jul 8, 2018 at 17:38

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One idiom you might find helpful is:

Cut off one's nose to spite their face.

You can use it to convey your intended meaning by employing it in the way I do below.

Rick was so hurt and upset by Lupita's trick that he ignored Lupita for years after. This reaction ultimately backfired, however. The following year, when the two were selected to perform a skit in front of the classroom together, Rick refused to give his lines whenever Lupita addressed him. Lupita performed the skit as best she could, giving all of her lines despite Rick's silence.

Lupita received an A for the assignment. Rick received an F. The class congratulated Lupita at recess. They gave Rick looks of disapproval.

"Talk about cutting off your nose to spite your face," said Ms. Spiegel.

In case the passage doesn't make it clear, when someone "cuts off their nose to spite their face," that person's vindictive behavior ends up harming themselves as opposed to the intended target.

In the passage above, Rick's tactic of ignoring Lupita ultimately hurts his academic performance and social standing. Meanwhile, Lupita does fine in both respects.

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