I'm not good in English, so this can be awkward – I'm sorry.

"I've been searching my whole life to find my own place / and maybe it is the party talking or the chocolate fondue / but with you I found myself"

This passage is coming from one of the film Frozen's OST called 'Love Is an Open Door'.

What I want to ask you is whether "and maybe it is the party talking or the chocolate fondue" is linked with former sentence or latter sentence

If it is linked with former sentence, it might be meaning: I said, "I've been searching my whole life to find my own place" – which I didn't say in a normal mood because I'm so happy right now.

If it is linked with latter sentence, it might be meaning: I'm so happy right now so I have to say "I found my place."

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    – Jay
    Apr 3, 2014 at 13:43
  • Sorry, i never used this site before... actually this is my first post in foreigner site
    – choe
    Apr 3, 2014 at 13:58
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    I must say, this is an impressive first question. A lot of new users get pointed here for some helpful advice, but you seem to have the hang of it already. Secondly, there won't be any need to apologize for unpolished English here – you are the kind of person this site was designed to help. Thanks for making it a better place!
    – J.R.
    Apr 3, 2014 at 19:36

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The idiom "maybe it's the [substance] talking" means the speaker is under the influence of a chemical substance and is saying things s/he would not normally say due to the intoxicated state. So in fact it's the speaker talking, not the fondue (but it is the fondue that is making him/her say it.)

For example: "Maybe it's the beer talking, Marge. But you've got a butt that won't quit." (The Simpsons)

In the case of Frozen, the writers are slipping some humor for adults into a kids film by making the intoxicating substance into an innocuous chocolate fondue.

So a good interpretation of the lyric might be, "Because the party atmosphere and chocolate I have consumed have loosened my inhibitions, I am telling you that I gained self-knowledge in the time spent with you."

  • Note also that alcohol could well be present in a fondue (wine or sherry in a cheese fondue, or rum or brandy in a chocolate one). So the intoxicating substance in the fondue isn't necessarily merely chocolate! Apr 15, 2014 at 7:42

I can understand your question. :) Let's break the sentence apart, and explain the idiomatic "maybe it's the party talking".

I've been searching my whole life to find my place. Maybe I'm not in my usual state of mind (and maybe I am), but (the way I feel right now is that) with you I (have) found myself.

The two latter sentences are more strongly bound together than the first one is, because the first of them (maybe I'm not in my usual state of mind) weakens the statement in the second one. However, the speaker is seeing all three sentences are part of a single idea. That's why the first sentence is bound together with "and". There's a sense of trying to get all of that idea out at once, so the listener can evaluate it all in one piece.

So, the short answer to your question is that they are all linked together.

  • +1 But OP may need some explanation how "it's the party talking or the chocolate fondue" is equivalent to "I'm not in my usual state of mind"; it's not a real obvious idiom. Apr 3, 2014 at 13:25
  • To Stoney. actually I knew about that. but thank you
    – choe
    Apr 3, 2014 at 13:50
  • @StoneyB Yes, I should have "spelled that out." Thank you!
    – BobRodes
    Apr 3, 2014 at 14:09
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    @Damkerng T: To "find oneself" means to come to an understanding of one's meaning or purpose in life. See this. (In this case, the reflexive pronoun functions as the direct object in the sentence.) Also the term "lyrics" exclusively refers to words of a poem or song. It's related to the word "lyre"; see this.
    – BobRodes
    Apr 3, 2014 at 15:46
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    Oh my god. I wrote it wrong.. It isn't "I find myself." Actually, It is "I find my place". What a shame. I just wrote it just my ears said. Sorry...
    – choe
    Apr 3, 2014 at 22:23

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