I am little bit confuse with the definition of extended family and immediate family. I have been living with my husband for three years in a apartment. Now in respect to this statement which one is my immediate family and which one is my extended family? My husband and me is it my immediate family? My parents' family and in laws family, are those my extended families?
If you were looking at a family tree, your immediate family would be those who are directly linked to you. (Parents, siblings, children, spouse)
Whereas your extended family is anyone you are related too but would have to draw more than one line on a family tree to get from them to you. (Grandparents, cousins, uncles, aunts, etc.)
Generally, your parents, siblings, spouses, and children are considered immediate family. Any grandparents/children, cousins, uncles, aunts, or otherwise would be your extended family.
You living with your husband is living with immediate family. Your parents are still considered immediate family.
I, personally, would would consider your in-laws to be extended family, but could see a possible argument for them to be considered immediate family upon marriage.