I'm a little bit confused about using the word 'not' with verbs in some situations. I'd been trying to find any specific information, but I've failed. I would like to receive any help with the following:
Is it possible to use 'not' like this?
You can either do something or not (to?) do something else?
You can either learn how to swim or simply not go with us.
I know, that it's possible to use 'not to' in the sentences like 'I want you not to kill me'. Is there any kind of sentence where the usage of 'not' + infinitive is possible (except the one I've asked about)?
Also, feel free to point me to any mistakes I've made so far.