The answer is not the word humble nor any derivation thereof. Arrogant being negative epithet has a positive counterpart of humble but I'm looking for the negative opposite, instead.

Arrogant conduct is assuming that ones success is the result of ones excellence and failing to consider that it might be subject to advantageous circumstances.

The opposite of that would be failing to see that any of the progress is due to ones skills nor competence. And that's a negative concept as well.

I can express it by overly humble or excessively timid/self-critical but I want a single word term for precisely that, rather than a description of the property. Insecure won't do because that's a different concept - I'm talking about someone who too often assumes that the success is due to fortunate circumstances.

  • It may help if you put a person with such attitude or feeling into a context. Can you make some real or imaginary example?
    – Jan
    Aug 28 '19 at 7:31
  • Does a word exist in your native language? Have you used a bilingual dictionary?
    – James K
    Aug 28 '19 at 7:34
  • @JamesK I don't know. I'm trying to find one but failed and I was hoping that if I find it in English, I can hit the dictionary using it. The best answer suggested self-deprecating and I'm satisfied with it. Sadly, it's not really translateable into Swedish... Aug 28 '19 at 16:19

The term that first came to mind was self-deprecating: tending or serving to disparage or undervalue oneself, but it doesn’t have a negative connotation. You could make it negative by adding “excessively” or “annoyingly”, but without an example of how you want to use the word you’re looking for, it’s difficult to say whether it fits.

Being self-deprecating if you are a celebrity or have a lot of power can be a positive quality. Self-deprecating humor (in general) can be seen as a positive thing unless it is excessive.

Self-effacing: having or showing a tendency to make oneself modestly or shyly inconspicuous, is a related word. I don’t think it fits though because it is more about avoiding attention than being self-critical.

  • I find self-deprecating suitable for the situations I imagine. It's not negative, as such, but it's kind of leans rather towards negative rather than positive charge. I can't imagine hearing oh, wow, what a impressive and self-deprecating dude you are. The two epithets grind against each other. Aug 28 '19 at 16:17

Removing any words I would consider positive from this list of antonyms of arrogant I found on Merriam Webster:

Near Antonyms of arrogant:

cowering, cringing, mousy (or mousey), overmodest, sheepish, shrinking, shy, subdued, timid, meek, submissive, unassertive, yielding

It's hard to pick one without knowing the context in which you are using it.

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