I had the opportunity to speak with several native speakers, It's fun, and they learn my native language, the problem is that several of my language partners speak with an American accent and the others in a British accent. It gets complicated for me; I mix spellings and pronunciation. I do not like this, I read in a site that I must choose an accent. So, if I choose a British accent, do I have to stop talking to all the Americans I've met?

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    No, choose neither accents. Speak with your natural accent. That is the best thing to do. – AIQ Oct 27 '19 at 2:59
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    @AIQ Alas there are more differences between British and American English than just the accent. – Ben Kovitz Oct 27 '19 at 3:58
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    @BenKovitz I know right. I just wanted to comment on the accent issue - how a site said OP must choose one accent which led OP to think "if I choose a British accent, do I have to stop talking to all the Americans". That terrified me - not talking to certain people because of their accent. Also, I have seen that when non-natives [try to] emulate British/American accent it hinders their ability to clearly talk about what's in their mind - they are too caught up trying to put words in the right accent. It also slows down their speech. – AIQ Oct 27 '19 at 4:13
  • @BenKovitz But I agree that one should choose one type and stick to it (perhaps this is influenced by which they are mostly exposed to). This also applies to spellings and meanings, and to all that which I am not aware of. – AIQ Oct 27 '19 at 4:16
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    On the other hand, if the British speakers are from Yorkshire, you'd best stop talking with them. You don't want to pick up one of those accents. (Just kidding!) – Ben Kovitz Oct 27 '19 at 4:49

I think the advice you received means to pick one accent to learn and use yourself when speaking. The point of this is to simplify your learning. If you have to learn two different ways of saying everything then it will take you a lot longer to reach proficiency. There are many other places where English is spoken with other accents as well (Australia, Canada, New Zealand, South Africa, etc), and different accents within each country. It's not realistic to expect to learn them all.

This doesn't mean you can't communicate with others who use a different accent. American and British people speak together all the time. They usually understand each other quite well when each is using their own accent. The even enjoy hearing the other accent sometimes. The same goes for Americans from the south and north or people from different parts of Britain.

There are differences between ways people in each country speak that go well beyond just the accent. These difference sometimes even confuse native speakers, but the more we are exposed to the other way of speaking the less we are confused. This will happen for you, too.

For the purpose of including all of the wisdom in the comments, I'll say that I agree that it's not necessary to emulate any one accent perfectly. The most important thing is to speak with good grammar and convey your meaning correctly. It's alright if you sound like a non-native speaker. Very few English learners ever get completely rid of of their foreign accents, even after years of living in an English speaking country.

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    I knew a German girl who had learned English a bit in school, and then spent 5 years in Newcastle. She spoke purest Geordie. She was unusual. – Michael Harvey Oct 27 '19 at 7:59
  • Germanic languages (Swedish, Norwegian, Icelandic, Danish, German, Dutch, Faroese, etc.) learning English "a germanic language" has such an easy advantage.😅 – Tinska Oct 27 '19 at 8:11

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