I was wondering which prepositions(s)sound(s)natural in the following scenarios:
Scenario 1:
I'm your father! I want you to stop smoking, Anna. That's really harmful to your health. Sometimes, you discourage me ......... your actions.
a. with
b. by
Scenario 2:
Anna, hear me out! I've warned you several times already to stop smoking. I had told you that is rude to do that when I'm at home! But, you overlooked my request again! I'm really getting discouraged ....... you.
a. from
b. by