"I didn't raise you for 15 years so you could go to war".
I found this frase and it didn't sound idiomatic to me. Is there another way of expressing the same idea in the following sentense?
"I didn't pay your college tuition for four years, so you could drop out now!"
Can I say:
"I didn't pay your college tuition for four years, for you to drop out now!"
Any sugestions?