It was in the 12th episode of the 9th season of Friends. Here is the scene. It's at around 13 seconds. Rachel: Yeah, I just get a little bummed when my birthday's over.
Monica: Well, at least you have one thing to be happy about. That jerk Gavin from your office didn't show up (Gavin shows up at the balcony windows).
Rachel: Mmm hmm.
Gavin: Yeah, hey. (comes in to the balcony)
Monica: Oh, we weren't talking about you. No, no way to recover.
I looked it up in this dictionary and any of the definitions seem to fit.