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Is there a term or expression for:

Two people argue with each other, they don't want to talk with each other any more, so they avoid looking at each other.

What is the common everyday term for it, for example, "we hate each other"?

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Not "we hate each other". Hate just suggests that one strongly dislikes another. You can hate someone, but still argue with them face to face, for example.

One expression is (to be) not on speaking terms, or we are not on speaking terms:

not be on speaking terms
If you are not on speaking terms with someone, you refuse to speak to them because you are angry with them:
• They had an argument last night and now they're not on speaking terms (with each other).
(Cambridge Dictionary)

be not speaking/not be on speaking terms
if two people are not speaking, they do not talk to each other, usually because they have argued
    He was not on speaking terms with his brother or sisters.
(Longman Dictionary)

be (not) on speaking terms
To have an amicable, although perhaps guarded or superficial, relationship with someone. This phrase is often used in the negative to show that two people are estranged.
It took a long time, but my ex-husband and I are finally on speaking terms these days. After that argument last night, I'm not on speaking terms with Stephanie.
I don't know Kyle that well, but we're on speaking terms, and he seems nice enough.

be on ˈspeaking terms (with somebody)
2 (also be ˈspeaking (to somebody)) be talking to each other again after an argument: Tony and Craig had a big row and are not on speaking terms. ♢ You’re lucky I’m still speaking to you after what you did!

(TFD)

It doesn't explicitly mean that they avoid looking at each other, but I think we can imagine that to be the case in certain contexts.

After two people have argued, and they are friendly, or somewhat friendly, again, then you say they are on speaking terms.

The expressions be speaking and be not speaking are synonyms with the above, as noted in the Longman and TFD entries, and in the OALD.

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  • oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/english/…: This dictionary says we can make it shorter "be speaking (to somebody)", for example, "They are not speaking to each other". Can we say it?
    – Tom
    Commented Sep 26, 2020 at 6:06
  • Yes, you can. It is noted in the Longman and TFD entries above, though maybe it's not clear/obvious. I will update my answer.
    – Em.
    Commented Sep 26, 2020 at 6:10
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You could use at loggerheads. In your example, Those two are at loggerheads.

From the Collins Dictionary:

If two or more people or groups are at loggerheads, they disagree very strongly with each other.

For months dentists and the health department have been at loggerheads over fees.

He was at loggerheads with other members of the committee.

This doesn't specifically mean that two people are avoiding each other, but that is usually implied by the context that there is a fight between them.

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