grammar rules behind it.
What's happening is called "passive voice". Verbs in passive voice are expressed with {form of be} + {past participle}.
Passive voice is used when we don't know who is doing an action, don't care, or otherwise want to de-emphasize the "agent". Business contexts often use passive voice to emphasize "teamwork" over an individual's action, and contexts where we don't want to seem like we are placing blame are also common for passive voice use.
Who is doing an action is called an agent, and the agent, if known and desired to be expressed, can be specified with a by X.
I drove the car.
The car was driven by me.
Passive voice works with infinitives - so I want to walk my dog and I want my dog to be walked by me are valid.
Passive voice can be used when talking to someone to make it clear you don't expect the other party of the coversation is supposed to be doing something. That's what 2, 4, and 6 sound like--you're telling someone this, but you don't want create the impression that someone has to do anything.
- I am waiting for the water to be boiled
Boil can mean for an object to be in the state of boiling (The water is boiling), or for someone to perform a process bring an object to the state of boiling (X boils the water). This sounds like you are waiting for someone else to boil some water. If you wanted to say you are waiting for the water itself to start boiling, you should say #8.