I am confused about these two dialogues where Tom wants to borrow a big amount of money from Jim who is a very stingy person. Tom is talking to Steve about it. Tom, Jim, and Steve are very close friends who know each other very well.
Dialogue 1:
Tom: I will ask Jim to lend me $10,000.
Steve: What! Did you just meet Jim?
Dialogue 2:
Tom: I will ask Jim to lend me $10,000.
Steve: What! Have you just met Jim?
I am confused because according to what I know #2 is the correct dialogue, however, I heard #1 dialogue from a native American.
In the everyday language:
I know the general difference between the simple past which usually is used for events that started and ended in the past and the present perfect which is usually used for the event that started in the past but still going on the present or relates to it. However, sometimes I cannot see the difference, especially in informal English. So:
Is there any difference between the meaning of the two dialogues above? or they just simply mean the same thing?