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My heart grieves with the thought that he will stay back.
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My heart grieves at the thought that he will stay back.

Grammarly corrects the first sentence to the second one. However, I have come across the first structure a lot more than the second. At the thought and With the thought—can these two be used interchangeably? Or do they mean different?

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    to me "grieving at the thought (of ?)" sounds much familiar and more natural than "grieving with the thought". I am not a native though. BTW, I would say "grieving at the though of him staying back".
    – Cardinal
    Commented Dec 14, 2022 at 0:49
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    We grieve at things that make us very sad; we grieve with people whose sadness we share. Commented Dec 14, 2022 at 10:33

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Both sound OK to me. To portray a direct reaction to something, "at" might be better (e.g. physical reactions like "I jumped at the noise", "I laughed at the joke"). To portray the effect of contemplating a topic, "with" might be better. Emotions can often be portrayed either way.

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