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the context:
I want to write a sentence/phrase in which I convey the idea that when one make a choice in life one have give up on something else. So the options are:
1 - each choice means forgo.
2 - each choice means a forgoing.
3 - each choice means to forgo.
also I would like to know if these phrases/senteces can finish in "forgo" not having to complement with a specific thing to forgo
Forgo is transitive, and it is rare to use it without an object.
I think what you are looking for is:
Each choice means forgoing another.
To look at your specific samples, I would find 1. and 3. acceptable with an object; but 1. only barely so - I would regard it as colloquial. As I say, I prefer my example. with an -ing clause and an explicit object.
Your 2. is grammatical, and can manage without an object, because a forgoing makes it a noun phrase, not an -ing clause.
But it is odd. The iWeb corpus has only three instances of a forgoing. One is a mistake (the "a" shouldn't be there) and the other two are both qualified (example "a forgoing of short-term solutions")
None of these.
It is hard to know quite what you want here. There is not enough context given to know that by "each choice" you actually mean "every choice that we make in life". Then the verb "means" seems like a dictionary definition, rather than the philosophical idea you seem to intend. Finally, "forgo" is a verb, so saying "... means forgo" is ungrammatical, and "... means to forgo" sounds like a poor dictionary definition of "choice".
You might hope for a noun "a forgoing", however that is rare. If you had "a forgoing of something" that might be acceptable.
So none of these work well.
As for an alternative, it depends on the context. Is there a need to be so poetic? Can you say "Every time we make a choice in our life we must give up on something else" (as in your question)? Why do you need something much shorter?
