a. I have two questions about the phrasal verb 'hold back'.
"You can hold back from the suffering of the world, you have free permission to do so, and it is in accordance with your nature, but perhaps this very holding back is the one suffering you could have avoided."
Franz Kafka
See: https://www.google.com/search?tbo=p&tbm=bks&q=%22hold+back+from+the+suffering%22&num=10
It is a famous quote.
I think in (a), 'hold back' means to keep away, not to look at or admit or acknowledge. Is that correct?
And if someone says
b. Hold back the ice.
when ordering a drink, does that mean they want little ice or no ice at all?
Many thanks