1. Between you and me Suhani is intelligent.

  2. Neither he nor his brother can walk faster than me.

  3. Whom did you mean to hurt by your unkind remarks except Sita and me?

In these sentence book uses me (objective form of I). But I find one more sentence from book which uses I(not me).

  1. Your husband doesn't believe that you are older than I.

In sentence 2 after preposition than it uses me while in sentence 4 its uses I after than. why? I think there should be I(instead of me) in sentence 3 and me(instead of I) in sentence 4. But i know I am wrong. I am confused with use of me and I. So please help me to understand this.

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    Just between you and I, you should look into a decent usage dictionary to find the info that you are looking for, e.g. Merriam-Webster's Dictionary of English Usage (MWDEU). You'll be interested in such entries as "than", and "between you and I". There are also many threads on grammar sites related to the questions that you are asking--some of there answers are reasonable, and many are ridiculously wrong. You should first rely on a decent usage dictionary, such as MWDEU. :)
    – F.E.
    Dec 22, 2014 at 19:18
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    Also, you shouldn't so quickly accept an answer. Wait at least a day so more people can see your question and respond. You'd want to encourage native English speakers to answer your questions, but if you've already accepted an answer, then they might not wish to spend their time to do so (as they might feel like they might be wasting their time).
    – F.E.
    Dec 22, 2014 at 19:20
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    @F.E. In the first phrase of your first comment, why did you wrote 'between you and I'? 'Between' is a preposition (and never a conjunction) and so requires an object pronoun, so 'between you and me'?
    – user8712
    Feb 15, 2015 at 15:56
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    @LawArea51Proposal-Commit Actually, F.E. was joking (hence the bold-italic I). Saying "between you and I" is a common error in English. Linguists call it "hypercorrection": the words that come naturally to you ("between you and me") are correct, but the influence of a rule you were taught leads you to change it, and consequently you make an error. (This is a nice illustration of how learning rules is not the same as learning language.)
    – Ben Kovitz
    Feb 15, 2015 at 17:17
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While all the other answers seem to focus on why it's than I or than me, I don't think this helps most people in everyday life such as in a conversation—they seem a little difficult to be used on the fly.

In a sentence, some words are often omitted, and the trick is not to do that. Just make the sentence as long as possible, and you'll see it's actually quite easy:

Than I / he / she:

He is better than I (am).

She is taller than he (is).

He knows more than she (knows).

Note: this may sound a little formal to some.

Than me / him / her:

She'd rather choose her than (she'll choose) me.

I like her more than (I like) him.

I'm more likely to give him a reward, than (I'll give it to) her.

  • Hi,sir, why do you use 'I like her more than (I like) him' instead of 'I like her more than (that I like) him'? I see that you use 'than that' in the two other examples.
    – 尤慕李
    Jul 16, 2018 at 1:03
  • @尤慕李 Hi. I don’t know actually, never noticed it though. Thanks for telling. I’ve removed the thats to make make it more consistent. Jul 16, 2018 at 15:17

Native speakers have been arguing about this for centuries. There are two schools of thought.

The conjunction theory

The conjunction theory, most famously advocated by Robert Lowth (1710–1787), claims that than is a conjunction that introduces a new clause with its own subject. So, you say:

He can walk faster than I can walk.

For brevity, you can omit the repeated can walk:

He can walk faster than I.

Since I is the subject of the omitted verb, it should be in the subjective case. Therefore the objective case, as in "He can walk faster than me," is nonsense, quod erat demonstrandum.

The preposition theory

The preposition theory says that than can serve as a conjunction or as a preposition, whichever you need. When used as a preposition, its object naturally takes the objective case:

He can walk faster than me.

The arguments

As far as I know, no blood has ever been spilled over this dispute, but it has been surprisingly acrimonious.

Advocates of the conjunction theory claim that logic is on their side, as well as prior usage such as the phrase holier than thou, which appears in the King James Bible. One argument in favor of the conjunction theory is that the choice of subjective or objective case makes a useful distinction if than is always regarded as a conjunction. For example, “Priya likes chapatis more than I” is short for “Priya likes chapatis more than I like chapatis” while “Priya likes chapatis more than me” is short for “Priya likes chapatis more than she likes me.”

Advocates of the preposition theory claim that logic is on their side, as well as convenience and prior usage in such authoritative writers as Shakespeare and Samuel Johnson (see the Wikipedia article or a book on grammar myths).

Advocates of the preposition theory like to point out that the same people who advocate the conjunction theory also advocate other grammar myths such as the “rule” against ending a sentence with a preposition and the “rule” against splitting an infinitive. Perhaps this is an ad hominem fallacy, and perhaps it’s an insight into something very misguided deep in the minds of the conjunction-theory advocates.

You must take sides

Since you are learning English as a foreign language, you probably would prefer to stay out of a debate about such a small point of grammar, affecting only about six words in the entire language. Sorry, that is not an option. You must choose a side. Once you say faster than I or faster than me, everyone will know which side you're on. The room will turn silent. People will look at each other with knowing glances. Friends who favor the other side will probably shun you for life when they find out. Friends who favor the side you've chosen will feel a new and enriched bond of loyalty to you.*

Let me close, then, by mentioning that I favor the preposition theory, and so should you.

* Don’t think you can weasel out of this by always spelling out the implied clause explicitly. That will avoid making a choice, but you’ll soon find it verbose and tiresome. And no one likes a waffler.

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    So well put. And a hoot, to boot! Feb 16, 2015 at 6:27
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    You, sir, are a braver man than I! Jun 15, 2017 at 23:07

Well, I will start with some basics instead of delving into the main point straight away.

There are some words in English Vocabulary that can act like a preposition as well as a conjunction.

After a preposition grammar insists that we use the objective form, for example me (Objective form of I)

Stop chasing after me.

And after a conjunction, we should have a whole clause. Basically the function of a conjunction is to connect two or more clauses, sentences and words.

You and I are from the same generation.

It was written by me and him.

Note - If you are not sure which form of pronoun (objective or subjective), please use the pronoun on its own with the conjunction removed. And you will find the correct form to be used. For example in the sentence - It was written by him and me - if you are unsure whether to use "me" or "I" after "and", please remove "and", and the sentence will come down to "It was written by me", not "It was written by I". So the correct form to use after "and" here in this case is "me".

Ours dresses are the same except mine is red. (Here the conjunction except joins a clause - mine is red)

The words - except and than - both can be used as a conjunction as well as preposition. So you have to decide whether to use objective form or the subjective form of pronoun after them accordingly.

But there is some special usage note to consider when it comes to than.

Note - Grammarians have insisted that than should be regarded as a conjunction in all its uses. So that a sentence such as Bill is taller than Tom should be construed as an elliptical version of the sentence Bill is taller than Tom is.

He is taller than I (This sentence is the elliptical version of He is taller than I am)

According to this view, the case of a pronoun following than is determined by whether the pronoun serves as the subject or object of the verb that is "understood."

But the rule allows the following sentence -

The news surprised Starun008 more than me. (It should be than me, not than I like the other example above. What is the reason? It's also simple. This concerned sentence is the elliptical version of The news surprised Starun008 more than it surprised me)

One major difference between you and me - there are no doubt many others - is that I use both cameras. (between is preposition, and so we need to use me, not I)

Neither he nor his brother can walk faster than I. (The elliptical version is Neither he nor his brother can walk faster than I can)

Whom did you mean to hurt by your unkind remarks except Sita and me? (correct. except is being used as a preposition here. So using I would be wrong)

Your husband doesn't believe that you are older than I. (The elliptical version is Your husband doesn't believe that you are older than I am)

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    Insists doesn't take a direct object: *insists us to use. Rather, "insists (that) we use..."
    – TimR
    Dec 22, 2014 at 12:50
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    1. Neither he nor his brother can walk faster than I. (The elliptical version is Neither he nor his brother can walk faster than I can) but 2. He is taller than me (This sentence is the elliptical version of He is taller than I am). In 2 you change "I am" into 'me'(elliptical version) while in sentence 1 "I can" change into "I"(elliptical version). why? @Man_From_India
    – starun008
    Dec 22, 2014 at 13:59
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    @Man_From_India Do you have any evidence - from published grammars that say that we need to us I in : he is taller than me/I? :) Dec 22, 2014 at 14:17
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    John likes Peter more than me(John likes Peter more than he likes me) and John likes Peter more than I(John likes Peter more than I likes peter.The safest option is to expand the words after than. @Araucaria
    – starun008
    Dec 22, 2014 at 14:32
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    @Araucaria I haven't said that "He is taller than me" is wrong. But here in India at least if you write this sentence in academic writing it will be considered wrong. Dec 22, 2014 at 14:32

The Oxford Guide to English Grammar by John Eastwood has it in short form in paragraph 221.4 and 221.5

"than" + nominative (I, we etc.) When a phrase/ clause follows:

1 The motel was less expensive than I had expected.

"than" + single personal pronoun in object form:

2 The other teams played better than us.

My remark: The variant 2 is often avoided by repeating the verb to be/to do as substitute of a normal verb:

3 He is taller than I am.

4 He speaks English better than I do.

  • oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/than here it says sentences like "he is smaller than she" are uncommon in modern English and only ever found in formal contexts. Uses such as "he is smaller than her", on the other hand, are almost universally accepted.
    – starun008
    Dec 29, 2014 at 6:40
  • @starun008 These days, most dictionaries side with the preposition theory. But contra the dictionaries, there are many people who hold to the conjunction theory and practice it consistently in everyday situations, and these people often make exams and grade them, believing that they're upholding the integrity of the language. Properly speaking, it's a matter of controversy. This question has an answer that follows the conjunction theory, which is well worth reading.
    – Ben Kovitz
    Dec 29, 2014 at 7:53

True, even I see both the styles (older than me/I) but I think to avoid ambiguity, you should use either 'me' or 'I am'

Your husband doesn't believe that you are older than me.

If you don't love ellipses, you go like this -

Your husband doesn't believe that you are older than I am.

But then, in sentence three, you are an object, so 'me' stands correct there.

About me and I, there are many questions here on ELL. Search for the term and read the answers. They are very useful.

  • The same concern applies to sentence #2 ("than I" as short for "than I can" would be a technically valid usage in the same style as #4), doesn't it?
    – Random832
    Dec 22, 2014 at 14:34
  • @Random832 Please see the link I have provided in the comment below my answer. They are not wrong, in fact they are common in modern English usage, but traditional grammar prompts us to use it that way. That is valid form in formal context. Dec 22, 2014 at 14:37
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    You've explained why both forms are acceptable, but I disagree with the assertion that we should "avoid ambiguity" by using I am. Both are acceptable, plain and simple.
    – J.R.
    Dec 24, 2014 at 11:03

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