I came across this phrase on a website
Show me a husband who won't, I'll show you a neighbor who will
I could not grasp the meaning.
If it is widespread among English speakers, would anyone explain the phrase ?
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There exists a trope of unfaithful wives who sleep with their neighbours, plumbers, or mailmen, especially when her husband pays her little attention. This stereotype is common in overused internet jokes and pornography.
This phrase implies that for every husband who doesn't please his wife sexually, there is a next-door neighbour who will.
This phrase is not widespread among English speakers, I have never heard it before. My impression of the meaning is
When a husband doesn't show his wife attention (whether sexually or relationally), she will fall in love with the neighbor who will give her attention (sexually)
Since most of the quotes on that site are about sex, I would assume this phrase is also, but you could use the phrase in a non-sexual way.
Show me a husband who won't (take her on dates, bring her flowers, say kind things, etc...), I'll show you a neighbor who will