This is a comment a poster made to someone on a discussion,

Man, why are you hassling me so much this morning? I'm trying to open minds, bro

I wasn't sure about the meaning of hassle, and when looking up on Dictionary.com, it shows that the verbal meaning of hassle has two senses, one is

verb (used without object)

  • to dispute or quarrel: children hassling over who has the most toys

and the other one is

verb (used with object)

  • to bother, annoy, or harass: I'll do the work, so don't hassle me

I'm not sure which one to apply, because I don't know the meaning of use with/without object.

  • Plug the definitions you found into the sentence in question and see which one fits: "Why are your quarreling me so much this morning?" "Why are your harassing me so much this morning?" The first one just doesn't fit. The second one is the one you want.
    – Jim
    May 18, 2013 at 22:24

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Use with or without an object refers to a verb's transitivity.

A verb with an object -- specifically, a direct object -- is used transitively and is in this circumstance called a transitive verb. The direct object is the noun or noun phrase which is affected by the action:

Mary walked the cat. ... cat is the direct object.
John is studying English. ... English is the direct object.
Don't hassle me. ... me is the direct object. The sense is "harass".

A verb without an object is used intransitively, and is called intransitive:

Mary walked to town ... Mary doesn't affect another person or thing.
John is studying. ... John doesn't affect another person or thing.
Boys, don't hassle. ... Although the boys are presumably affecting each other, they don't affect anyone else. The sense is "quarrel".

Some verbs take two objects, a direct object and an indirect object. The indirect object is the noun or noun phrase which receives the action or for whose benefit is done. These verbs are used bitransitively.

John gave Mary a book. ... book is the direct object, Mary is the indirect object.
Bob told me his story. ... story is the direct object, me is the indirect object.

Note that object in all of these is syntactic category, not a semantic category:

The story was told by Bob. ... Although story is affected by the action, it is not the object of the verb but its subject, because this sentence is in passive voice.


By Nature or Type a verb can be:

  • TRANSITIVE = It introduces a direct complement, object, accusative, no prepositions required.

John reads a novel every week

  • INTRANSITIVE = It introduces all other complements known as indirect or oblique, genitive, dative, ablative cases. An appropriate preposition is required ,e.g. by, for, with.

This book was published by Mondadori.

  • There are indirect objects, too.
    – fev
    Dec 15, 2020 at 16:03

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