"Those things that hurt, instruct" is a famous Benjamin Franklin quote.
I googled its meaning and many forums say that it means that challenges make you stronger. But I cannot find how the words in the sentence suggest this meaning.
Can you break down the sentence and explain the meaning?
"that hurt" is a restrictive clause which modifies (defines) "those things".
The verb phrase is "hurt", that is, "cause pain".
Hurt has both transitive and intransitive meaning:
Touching a hot frying pan hurts the fingertip. [to cause pain to something or someone]
Afterwards, the fingertip hurts. [to feel pain]
The entire phrase is the subject of the predication:
{Those things that cause pain} instruct.
Those things which hurt us can also teach us something as well...
"Life experiences, words of others may hurt or even break us but there might be reasons or purposes why all these things happen. Maybe somehow for us to "get the message"- to reflect, realize, ponder and awaken ourselves to be better individuals with broader horizons"
This quote means people in the world meet their problems in a direct way. They attempt to get out of them rather than suffer them. I found this answer in a book by Arun Tiwari, an autobiography of A.P.J Abdul Kalam, Wings of Fire.
It means the things that you are afraid of or you feel inferior to them; is the things you should do. Make the obstacles upside down. Those are "instruct" means instruction to do things which fears you most. Or you can simply say that: "Your greatest victory lies in your greatest fear"
