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A scretary told me to leave a voice message to her boss, because he was busy at the moment when I dialed his office number.
So, I left him a message like:

Good morning, Mr.XYZ. This is Kitty Lastname. Kitty Lastname is my real name. I am not a machine. I am from the ABC cake shop, which is located a few miles away from your company. I tried to keep in touch with you but your secretary told me that you were very busy. Sir, you had left your XXX under the chair you were sitting...

My teachers used to tell us never use "I am" on any phone call conversations, so I am very not sure whether I was wrong to say "this is" and then "I am" together in the above voice message.

Please help me.

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    Possible duplicate of Which introduction is preferred: "Myself [NAME]" or "I'm [NAME]"? – StoneyB Nov 15 '15 at 15:08
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    Kitty, Have a look at this question here – Usernew Nov 15 '15 at 15:09
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    @StoneyB Duplicate? I see a different thing here: a phone call instead of an Interview. That question is used for introduction. So, is it the same thing or different? – Usernew Nov 15 '15 at 15:13
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    I don't know why teachers say this, but apparently many do. "This is" is only conventional when you first introduce yourself. Your message seems to me very courteous and helpful; if I got this message I would thank you, and would call your boss to tell her how grateful I was for your zeal. It is entirely acceptable except for that keep: you should say "I tried to get in touch with you* – StoneyB Nov 15 '15 at 15:14
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    I'm slightly puzzled as to why you felt the need to assert that you were not using a false name and that you were not a machine. But I don't see any grammatical problems. :-) – Harry Johnston Nov 16 '15 at 3:48
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Your teacher probably meant that native speakers do not usually answer the questions:

Who's this? or

With whom am I speaking?/Who am I speaking with?

on the phone by saying I am (name). Instead, a native speaker would usually say This is (name) when first identifying oneself.

And this is what Kitty does, in your example.

And, after first saying This is Kitty, it is absolutely correct to provide additional information about oneself by using I am... So your example is correct on this usage also.

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This is Kitty. I am the manager of XYZ cake shop.

and

This is Kitty, the manager of XYZ cake shop.

are equivalent, and perfectly acceptable English usage over the phone (and in person, in written correspondence, etc.). While a 40 year veteran diplomat might be more formal, 99.9% of the English speaking world consider this a perfectly acceptable way to get to the point politely.

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This question, and the answer (by User1) which is currently the highest rated, seems very weird to me. I've never before heard this rule to avoid "I am" when on the phone. When people ask for me by name, I might say "This is", but probably say "I am" more frequently (because it is slightly faster).

"I am" sounds a bit more personal; perhaps the older generation preferred more formality when communicating in a less personal fashion, like over the phone? But today, salespeople are certainly encouraged to connect emotionally with people, in order to bond.

Nobody has ever expressed any discomfort with me using "I am".

  • So, you just say I am or do you say I am ____ and what would you put in the blank? – user20792 Nov 15 '15 at 21:37
  • This is ____ has nothing to do with formality or being impersonal, but only with usage. Usages change over time, as you suggest. One could argue that I am... is more formal than this is... – user20792 Nov 15 '15 at 21:40
  • Salespeople are taught gimmicks to get into people's pocket books and wallets, not how to genuinely communicate. – user20792 Nov 15 '15 at 21:41

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