She blames me when the fault is hers. This happens usually when we are in front of our relatives. She twists statements and/or exaggerates when she wants to complain about me to my father or to our relatives.
When neighbours say something negative about my appearance or my behaviour, she lectures me instead of telling that person to stop commenting. Reason she states is that it is embrassing for her to hear all this, so I should mend my behaviour. She doesn't want to hear logic or any counter argument.
Yet, she wonders why I don't love her.
So, the question is what the word to describe such a mother?
In hindi the word is Kumata*. What is it in English?
*NOTE: Mata means 'mother'. Ku mata means 'bad mother'. Similarly there is putra for 'son', and kuputra for 'bad son'. These are Sanskrit words.