I sometimes try to get even rather than forgive and forget.
I know "rather than" but this one put on an "and". I'm confused with the sentence.
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Sign up to join this communityThis sentence is talking about two options:
When you are wronged, you can choose to [get even], or to [forgive and forget]. (Or you can choose to do neither and hold a grudge instead, but your original sentence doesn't mention that.)
"to forgive and forget" is a phrase that means to let something go. For example if somebody wrongs you and you decide to move past the incident rather than make a big deal out of it. Sometimes I try to [A] rather than [B]. "sometimes try to [get even] rather than [forgive and forget]"
If someone wrongs you, you will try to get revenge, or pay back with the same action or worse( eye per eye), instead of just forgive or let it goes.