What is the difference between those sentences?

He is the person I needed for the job.

He is a person I needed for the job.


This is not a place I wanted to go.

This is not the place I wanted to go.

I think there is a difference in nuance, but I'm not sure about the specifics.

This is one of the explanations I found online, but is it the same as my examples?

He bought the house with a big backyard. This combination tells the listener which specific house he bought.

He bought a house with a big backyard. This combination tells the listener what kind of house he bought, but not the specific house he bought.

I assumed that one with "the" implies that the noun it modifies is one, one and only. However, when "a" gets in the way, the noun it modifies becomes one of many, or at least implicitly suggested that there can be more than one.

Is my guess correct?

Edit: Here is the thread I found. http://www.grammaring.com/defining-relative-clause

An identifying clause defines who or what we are talking about and refers to a noun which is preceded by the definite article the:

This is the book I told you about last week. Remember? Do you know the guy who is talking to Will over there?

A classifying clause describes what kind of person(s) or thing(s) we are talking about. It refers to a singular uncountable or plural countable noun without an article or a singular countable noun preceded by the indefinite article a or an:

I wrote my essay on a photo which was taken by Robert Capa. Sometimes, I like listening to music that makes me sad. I don't know any people who speak Esperanto.

So is it fine to say "this is a book I told you about last week" if I am trying to classify it instead of identifying it?

  • Have you consulted a dictionary?
    – Silenus
    Jun 16, 2016 at 22:15
  • Yes, but it's still not very clear to me.
    – quetchalcoatle
    Jun 16, 2016 at 22:29
  • There are alternatives which are sometimes better than either choice of article: "he is one of the people I needed for the job"; "this is one of the books I told you about last week". Jun 16, 2016 at 23:57
  • Thank you for the suggestion, but what I would like to know about is the choice of article. By the way, you used the before the plural nouns.
    – quetchalcoatle
    Jun 17, 2016 at 0:13
  • I meant to use the before the plural nouns. "This is one of books I told you about last week" is not grammatical. Jun 17, 2016 at 2:05

1 Answer 1


The first thing to say is that this is subtle, and it's sometimes hard for native speakers to put into words just why they would choose "the" vs "a" or vice versa, even though it's clear to them which one they would use.

For "the person I needed for the job" vs "a person I needed", your intuition is right that the first sentence implies that you needed one particular person, and you found him. Even though that's hardly ever literally true, it's a nice way to emphasize how ideal someone is, and so it's by far the more common thing you would say. (But the second sentence is a perfectly good way of saying "I needed this person for this job.")

A similar thing is true with the second pair of sentences. When you say "This is not the place I wanted to go," you imply that there was a specific place you wanted to go, and this isn't it.

If you say "this is a book I told you about yesterday," it might suggest that it was one of several books, or it might mean that you don't think I remember it. "The" essentially points to a specific item, so if I've forgotten the conversation, it's less natural to point to it.


You must log in to answer this question.

Not the answer you're looking for? Browse other questions tagged .