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I'm native to a country where the expression "thanks before" is widely used. Is it grammatically correct?
Does "thanks in advance" really sound rude to (some) native English speakers?
Can you suggest other expressions to be used as alternatives?
Is there anything (grammatically) wrong with the way I write my questions?
I doubt thanks before is commonly used in this sense. Thanks in advance is frequently used. Here is some data on the matter. If we let Google expand our search for context, notice that thanks in advance has the context we want.
If it is written, then I personally don't think it is rude, since I understand that the author is trying to be polite. If it is spoken, and the speaker says it in a presumptuous manner, then it is really irritating.
However, there are people who will find it rude. They will more likely take it as a presumptuous statement.
I personally say, or write in an email, "Thank you for your consideration". Some other alternatives include:
I found a post online that addresses this matter. The author gives some other alternatives:
