Situation in the movie - 'Blended' (2014) 

woman yet to come to meeting place for blind date. 
man has just arrived and ordered dishes. 
and in a minute woman finally arrvied.

Man: (staring on TV) Got you, uh, Buffalo shrimp with the sauce on the side.
They'll do that for me here. I didn't know how you took it so...

Woman: You realize that you're not actually looking at my face right now.

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 1) What does " Got you" means in that sentence ?

  2) what does "it" and "so"  indicate as in "how you took it so" ?
       It doesn't make sense the whold meaning as well. 
  
3)  what does "on the side" means as in "with the sauce  on the side?

  4) " You realize ~~ " means "you will be realizing soon" ?
            how can 'a declarative