Do the two paragraphs below mean the same thing, assuming that **having being said to** is the passive of **somebody said to you**

>Having being said to that you are becoming a mother while you are at your husband birthday party would be a great thing. 

> In my opinion, it is a great thing if somebody, no matter who, ( it could be your mother in law, a friend or an stranger that has just read your blood test ) tells you at your husband birthday oarty that you are becoming a mother.