Do the two paragraphs below mean the same thing, assuming that having being said to is the passive of somebody said to you

Having being said to that you are becoming a mother while you are at your husband birthday party would be a great thing.

In my opinion, it is a great thing if somebody, no matter who, ( it could be your mother in law, a friend or an stranger that has just read your blood test ) tells you at your husband birthday oarty that you are becoming a mother.