This is a two-part question:
1) I have consulted multiple sources and found that 'it isn't' and 'it's not' have little to no semantic difference. If they are pretty much equivalent then for what reason is -
It's not like we didn't try our best
preferred to:
It isn't like we didn't try our best
If they are both correct grammatically why is the first construction much more common and even sound more natural. Is it a matter of placement of emphasis?
2) It is stated in a grammar article that tag question should be in the opposite form to the main question. However, in a case of two negatives yielding a positive like the example above, should the tag question be negation or positive?
- It's not like we didn't know what to do, is it?
or
- It's not like we didn't know what to do, isn't it?
Which one obeys the rule, 1 or 2?
Many thanks in advance.