I’m looking for a way to describe this feeling. The situation is, a person puts in a lot of thought into for example writing about a subject. They give a well thought-out work, but maybe either their teacher or their audience thinks it’s not good. I want to talk about how they feel about it, but I don’t feel I could describe it to the point.
Because they put their own thought into the work, it contains some part of them. I thought of “discouraged,” or “doubts their self-worth,” “feel they’re nothing.” But it doesn’t have the meaning that the product of they created is considered poor. In my language there’s a phrase that’s like “write off (or dismiss?) their whole being.” I know it doesn’t sound right in English, does it? How would you say it?
Thank you.