I agree with @DrMoishe Pippik's answer regarding verb usage.
With respect to "oneself" vs. "themselves," I would go with "themselves" or even "themself." I think "oneself" can only be used as a reflexive pronoun where the pronoun "one" is used, or where no other pronoun is used but "one" is understood, e.g. (from https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/oneself)
It is important [for one] to have good feelings about oneself.
To me, using "oneself" with any other pronoun (even if it contains the word "one") sounds off. Using the sentence from above as an example:
It is important for anyone to have good feelings about oneself.
vs.
It is important for anyone to have good feelings about themself.
It is important for someone to have good feelings about oneself.
vs.
It is important for someone to have good feelings about themself.
It is important for a person to have good feelings about oneself.
vs.
It is important for a person to have good feelings about themself.
In all of these examples, I think "themself" (or maybe "themselves," plural) sounds more correct than "oneself."