"Sibilance" is a rather strange feature of phonetics.
There is a class of consonants that are "fricative": f, v, th, sh, s, z. In these consonants the mouth nearly closes so the air is forced through a narrow gap, making a hissing sound.
Two of these are classed as "sibilant": s and sh. The others are not sibilant, but there is no real reason why only s and sh are sibilant, that is just what the word means. It is used more by poets than by linguists. (As a poetic effect of using lots of words with the s or sh sound.)
The word "violet" has a non-sibilant fricative at the start and a stop consonant at the end. There is nothing here that could be called "sibilant" in any standard dialect. In particular, it is never pronounced "violets" or "violeth" in any standard dialect.