Are there differences between "lady" and "woman" ?

Google say lady is a polite social woman. But we don't use them just as this. Do we? English isn't my native language so I am better clarifying myself.

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"Lady" can be used to refer to someone of higher or lower social rank. When it's spelled with a capital letter, it is the title of a woman with the equivalent rank of a Lord, or a woman who is married to a Lord. As "just a word", though, it usually refers to somebody who is of a different social rank from yours. You would use the terms "cleaning lady" and "bag lady" just as much (and probably more in these less-formal times) as you would "lady of the house" and other sorts of "you are more important than me" phrases.

One needs to watch the use of "lady" these days. Because it has been as much a word that comes automatically with marriage as one that may be earned, it is sometimes felt as belittling, dismissive or condescending; something like calling Jane, who is married to John Smith, Mrs. John Smith. The word itself isn't a bad one, and can be used in very positive ways, but many of its uses—uses that once would have been the height of proper manners—are very much unwelcome these days.

  • I do not not where you come from, but in the southern USA we have cleaning women not cleaning ladies. Also, I find it hard to follow your second paragraph, possibly because I have no idea what you mean by a female migrating(?) from a woman to a lady simply by marriage...I have a feeling you and I are of different English-speaking cultures. And we value our fine women in the South.
    – user6951
    Commented Jun 15, 2015 at 1:01
  • "Cleaning lady" is much more common on the west coast of the U.S. Ngrams shows an interesting shift from woman to lady beginning in the 1970's books.google.com/ngrams/…
    – Adam
    Commented Oct 14, 2015 at 17:02

An analogy should illustrate the difference well:

Lady : woman :: gentleman : man.

That is, "lady" and "gentleman" typically occur in the same contexts, as do "woman" and "man". Examples:

"Ladies and gentlemen" as a term of address in public speaking.

Women and Men, the title of a novel by Joseph McElroy.

  • This answer falls short on the explaining the difference(s) in meaning if showing occurrences linked with the normal companion words is all you got.
    – user6951
    Commented Jun 15, 2015 at 0:55

Both user3820386 and Stan Rogers answers are correct, but there is more to the question. There has been a generational shift in the meaning and implications of "lady", at least in the US. For instance, my father (born 1913) used to tell the joke, "What's the difference between a diplomat and a lady?"

If a diplomat say yes he means maybe, if he says maybe he means no, and if he says no he's no diplomat.

If a lady say no she means maybe, if she says maybe she means yes, and if she says yes she's no lady.

In the 1950s, the animated Disney movie "The Lady and the Tramp" http://movies.disney.com/lady-and-the-tramp was a popular family movie, but it included a play on words with the juxtaposition of "lady" and "tramp", with the latter meaning a sexually promiscuous woman.

At the same time, "lady of the evening" was a euphemism for prostitute.

With the advent of the Sexual Revolution, the aspect of compulsory chastity is no longer part of the definition of lady. As far as I know.

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    This answer (and the answer by @Stan Rogers, too) touches on something that can't be stressed enough: perhaps the term lady is usually used as a polite compliment, but it can be used perjoratively, too. It really depends on the context.
    – J.R.
    Commented Jun 15, 2015 at 9:16

A lady was a woman with an higher rank in society. Nowadays lady and woman means the same (but lady is more complimentary than woman).

  • so lady is a respected version of women.
    – vaibhav
    Commented Jul 9, 2014 at 15:59
  • More or less. You can compare it with man & sir.
    – user3820836
    Commented Jul 9, 2014 at 16:10
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    "Gentleman" is the male equivalent of "lady", not "sir".
    – Rupe
    Commented Jul 9, 2014 at 16:43
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    @Rupe - depending on context, the male equivalent of lady can very well be "sir". As can it be "lord". The wife of a knight (who is addressed as Sir John) would be addressed as Lady Brown. source
    – oerkelens
    Commented Jul 9, 2014 at 17:06
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    When one is speaking of "lady" the noun, "sir" is not an analog; "gentleman" is. When one is speaking of "Lady" the courtesy title, "Sir" is one possible analog (where "Gentleman" is not).
    – outis nihil
    Commented Jul 9, 2014 at 17:34

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