UPDATED: I do really appreciate your explanations and taking time. Nevertheless, none of them isn't my answer. I, again, try to explain my specific question:
As I have already surfed the Internet and some dictionaries, I have realized the fact that, for instance the bold part, either ing form of a verb or an infinitive with to could appear after cannot. So, I am wondering the other same rules for italic parts.
cannot bear and cannot stand both of them need either ing form or infinitive with to
Any help would be greatly appreciated